낡은 손수레의 꿈

November 4, 2020 loaloa Leave a comment

낡은 손수레의 꿈

밤샘하는
수험생들

집중하는
귀에 거슬릴라
소리없이 손수레를
끌지만

워낙
낡은 손수레는
힘듬을 못 참고
신음을
하고

아저씨의
숨찬 호흡은
어둠속에 봉화가
오른다

나의 생활은
거의 다
밤

너네 길로 가라
텃세 부리는
싸울 일 없고
자리싸움없는

모두 잠든
새벽이 편하다

밤새 먹고
쌓아놓은 폐지팔아
받은 돈 모아모아
통장 만들어

큰 아이의
대학등록금
마련

애비걱정은
하지 말아라

내 책임이니
우리 식군들
굶기랴

지금은
힘들지만
곧 배부를 날
온다

우리 식구는
절대 안 굶긴다

네가 좋아하는
돼지갈비도
사 줄테니

사고 질병없이
건강하게만
자라라

집도 마련,
따뜻하게 살자

-隱石-

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Arise, Shine

November 3, 2020 loaloa Leave a comment

Arise, Shine

“Arise,
shine,

for
your light
has come,

and

the
glory of
the Lord

rises
upon
you.

Isaiah 60:1

일어나라
빛을 발하라

이는
네 빛이 이르렀고

여호와의
영광이 네 위에
임하였음이니라

이사야 60:1

Holy BIBLE
New International Version (NIV)
성경/개역개정

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벗의 노래

November 3, 2020 loaloa Leave a comment

벗의 노래

홀로는
이슬 하나의
무게도 견디지
못할 것
같은

작고
여린 꽃잎들이

층층이
포개어지고
동그랗게
모여

이슬도,
바람도 너끈히
이긴다

하나의 우산 속에
다정히 밀착된
두 사람이

주룩주룩
소낙비를 뚫고
명랑하게
걸으며

사랑의 풍경을
짓는다

가파르게
깊은 계곡과
굽이굽이 능선이
만나서

산의
너른 품 이루어

벌레들과
새들과 짐승들
앉은뱅이 풀들과
우람한
나무들

그 모두의
안식처가 된다

나 홀로는
많이 외로웠을 생(生)
함께여서
행복한

참 고마운 그대여,

나의 소중한
길벗이여

-정연복-

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Jess Glynne – Hold My Hand

November 3, 2020 loaloa Leave a comment

Jess Glynne –
Hold My Hand
[Official Video]

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<M+POP Single 6A>to view
above at the Menu Bar

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Verbal abuse 언어폭력

November 3, 2020 loaloa Leave a comment

Verbal abuse 언어폭력

Verbal abuse (also verbal attack
or verbal assault) is the act of
forcefully criticizing, insulting,
or denouncing another person.

Characterized by underlying anger
and hostility, it is a destructive form of
communication intended to harm
the self-concept of the other person
and produce negative emotions.

Verbal abuse is
a maladaptive mechanism
that anyone can display occasionally,
such as during times of high stress
or physical discomfort.

For some people,
it is a pattern of behaviors
used intentionally to control
or manipulate others
or to get revenge.

언어폭력(언어공격, 언어폭행)이란
강압적으로 상대방을 비판하거나
모욕하거나 비난하는 행위이다.

특성은 저변에 내재된 분노와 적대감이며,
파괴적인 대화 형식으로서 의도적으로
상대방의 자아개념을 해치고
부정적인 감정을 일으키게 하는 것이다.

언어폭력은 부적응 메커니즘으로서
누구든지 상황에 따라, 즉 스트레스가 많을 때나
몸 상태가 좋지 않을 때 분출할 수 있다.

어떤 사람들은 의도적으로
상대방을 조절하거나 능란하게 조종하고
복수하는데 쓰는 행동 패턴이다.

*참고

Types

In schools and in everyday life, a person may engage in verbal abuse—bullying (which often has a physical component)—to gain status as superior to the person targeted and to bond with others against the target.

Usually, the bully knows no other way to connect emotionally with others.

In romantic relationships, the verbal abuser may be responding to the partner’s “separateness”, i.e., independent thoughts, views, desires, feelings, expressions (even of happiness) which the abuser views as a threat, irritant or attack.

Some people believe the abuser has low self-esteem and then so, attempts to place their victim in a similar position, i.e., to believe negative things about themselves.

Because of the abuser’s need for dominance and unwillingness to accept their partner as an equal, the verbal abuser is compelled to negate the perceptions of the partner, about the abuse, which causes more psychological pain to the victim.

This is also known as gas-lighting or Jekyll and Hyde-like behavior, because the abuser keeps the target of abuse off-balance with their hot-and-cold unpredictable behavior.

This confusion adds to the pain caused by psychological abuse and keeps the victim off-balance.

Anyone can experience verbal abuse. Typically, in romantic or family relationships, verbal abuse increases in intensity and frequency over time.

After exposure to verbal abuse, victims may develop clinical depression. The person targeted by verbal abuse over time may succumb to any stress-related illness. Verbal abuse creates emotional pain and mental anguish in its target.

Despite the fact that verbal abuse does not leave bruising, verbal abuse can be as detrimental to a person’s health as physical abuse.

References

^ “assault”, American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language (Fifth ed.), Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company, 2016, retrieved 16 March 2018
^ a b c The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Patricia Evans. Adams Media Corp 1992, 1996, 2010
^ Elgin, Suzette Haden (April 2000), How Verbal Self-Defense Works, retrieved 16 March 2018
^ Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You, Patricia Evans pg. 191.2002 by Adams Media Corp
^ Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You, Patricia Evans, Adams Media Corp 2002
^ Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them, Susan Foreword, Bantam, 2002
^ Why Does He Do That?, Lundy Bancroft. Berkley Books, 2003
^ When Words Are Used As Weapons: Verbal Abuse, University of Nebraska, Lincoln Extension